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Happy New Year MMA Family!
I thought I would start the new year off with some time to reflect on what went down in 2011 and what to look forward to in 2012...
Firstly, MMA has been a blessing as has my partner in crime, the beautiful and awesome Ms. Laura Flores. We had a year of ups and downs both personally and professionally and we always seem to come out ahead. I appreciate her and love her tremendously! I know we will make bigger moves in the coming year and I am very excited to see where the year takes us.<3
Have you ever felt conflicted?
Something that has been on my mind a lot lately and, to my surprise, the mind of others...
"Why don't you perform in the scene anymore?"
This is very difficult for me to answer and even to this day I have constant internal battles about how I should approach this.
I cannot and will not fully encompass all the feelings I have on the matter in this blog post, but I can write what is off the top of my head. Here goes!
You see, for the longest time, I used to dance with my dear friend, Sekou McMiller and we (his group, Descarga Caribe) got a chance to perform ALL OVER the U.S. and the world!
Common sense would dictate that I would continue to try and travel and do my thing with Laura once Sekou moved to NYC. I had a different thought though. I know I have sense, perhaps I'm just not common. You see, I wanted to become a better.
In regards to becoming a better dancer, I actually mean I wanted to understand dance. I am a very technical person and I felt I knew enough to be a good club dancer, but to achieve a high standard, well that was a different matter all together.
Know Your Role!
Know your role...
So on my journey with this crazy world of dance, I have stumbled upon a lot of funny things. Things like my own growing pains, injuries, crazy moments on stage that made me chuckle and more than enough experiences on the social dance floor.
Ladies! Have you ever danced with "that guy?" You know him....THAT GUY. He's the one who will make his turn pattern happen NO MATER WHAT. I have always been of the opinion that dances are way more than turn patterns, but that's just me...
Fellas! How about the "ahem" heavy follows who my old friend and I would refer to as 'death by styling.' These girls are the lovelies that seems to do the female version of 'no matter what' and will tear your rotator cuff of to get that extra body roll in.
We might blow up but we won't go POP!
Another week another conversation. It seems as the more I meet and interact with new and interesting people at the studio, the more the topic of "on1" (for the purposes of this article, Salsa) vs "on2" (for the purposes of this article, Mambo) is bought up.
Does that make sense to you? Me either.
I don't see it so much as a 'whats better' more than its a 'what do you prefer?' Let me explain. We all are little fingerprints roaming the world and we all somehow have our own sense of individuality. That being the case, we should all be able to figure out what style we want to dance in. Do you want a snappier, more downbeat kind of dance? Does making sure that you can dance with more people affect your decision making? Odds are, you are better off dancing Salsa. On the contrary, do you prefer a smoother looking and more percussion based dance? Do you hear the music a bit deeper? Does dancing a mean Cha Cha make you warm and fuzzy inside? The you my friend, were born to MAMBO!
It's ok...really...
As a newbie to salsa and to the dance floor, it takes a little bit of acclimating to make yourself comfortable in this, or any, new environment. Having been there myself, I know EXACTLY how you all feel.
Let me take you back a bit and tell you a story of when I first started dancing. I took classes at a local studio because I saw a group of performers dance on stage at an old Pan-American festival (anyone remember those?). I remember thinking to myself at the time that I could do that very thing one day, even though I had never formally danced ANYTHING in my life. This bold thought led me to look up salsa studios and finally deciding to jump in the pool and start my dancing education.
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